- She’s emotionally manipulative and abusive
- She posted pictures of her self-harm to tumblr for notes and attention. Which is technically gore and some of the cuts are deep. Not to mention she never tags them.
- She asks her white knights to send…
I guess I don’t know enough about this person to have a say in anything. And I’m not defending her, as I don’t quite know who this is about, but some of these reasons are… well, stupid. And while I can agree that most of these reasons are valid reasons to dislike someone, some of them really aren’t.
Usually if someone is cutting themselves and wanting attention from it, there’s some deep rooted issues there. Sometimes people with unpleasant attitudes either don’t understand their unpleasant attitude, or why it’s not acceptable. Or sometimes they know they’re being unpleasant and can’t help it. And who knows why, maybe they were bullied or abused growing up. If there’s anything I’ve learned from meeting people, on and offline, who were abused growing up, they are usually one of two things: 1. prone to be very submissive and passive or 2. prone to be abusive and manipulative. These are characteristics that were beaten in to them, whether physically or mentally, and are hard to fix. Who knows the reason, though. Maybe, regardless of her seemingly unpleasant attitude, she could be really insecure and just wanting people to care about her. Maybe she didn’t get enough attention as a child, and any attention is good attention to her. Who knows, but self harm, for attention or not, is hardly a reason to call someone trash.
What does the range of skin tones in her OCs, which are personal characters, have to do with anything?? Maybe there’s more to that than what I’m thinking, but I’m Caucasian and my OCs are usually of pale to tan skin. That’s just my preference for characters, though. I tend to gravitate towards things that are more like me.
Being 22 and living with their parents isn’t really that great of a reason for the point the OP is trying to make. I no longer live with my parents, but when I was around that age I did, due to not making a good enough income to afford a place of my own. In the old days, it was preferred families stay together anyway. Why is this such a frowned upon thing? Why would staying at home longer than what’s considered socially acceptable warrant someone as being trash? It’s like saying someone who is 30 and living at home is a basement-dwelling nerd that will never get laid. It’s just stupid.
And how bad are her commission prices? I have artist friends that will charge $15 for one thing, while the other charges $50 for the same thing. If you can get whatever amount of money for your work, then why not charge it?? And if you’re staying with your parents, depending on what your rent is(if anything), you probably could make a good amount of money off of them. But who even cares if that’s how you make your riches?
Other than those ones, all of the list seems like reasonable things to not like a person. But this girl sounds like she has some serious personal issues that have made her the way she is. If she was just using ablest/racist/etc slurs and harassing people with her fanbase, with no other issues, then I could get thinking she was pretty much a bitch. But knowing that she cuts herself is enough reason to tell anyone that this person has serious mental health problems. She probably doesn’t even realize it, and if she does she could be seriously struggling and as a result is lashing out in obscene ways. Like a bully in a cliched elementary school scenario, where they bully you and it turns out they just need friends because their life essentially sucks. In which case, this all seems kind of sad. She probably lacked positive role-models growing up. She sounds like she needs more professional help than she does counter harassment.